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These standards are broadcast almost everywhere we look and they root themselves in the human mind. They become a template which many feel they must fit into, otherwise they risk being ridiculed, rejected and misunderstood. A fear of being different drives many young women to be on exhausting diets, and causes them to feel that their body is the reason for the difficulties in their life.","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Projection into other life areas:","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"}],"nodeType":"list-item"}],"nodeType":"unordered-list"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"A person who cannot realize their potential may become nervous, stressed and gain weight as a result. Later, they will notice that their reflection in the mirror is not the same as it used to be and they will become depressed and even more stressed. 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